If feedback still feels hard...read this.


Hey there, Reader,

Happy Friday!

Earlier this week, we talked about how feedback—when done right—is a gift. 🎁


But let’s be honest... even with the best intentions, it’s still tricky.

Miss the email?

No worries—here’s the short version:

✅ Clarity beats harshness
✅ Direction beats criticism
✅ Listening beats lecturing

If that sounds like the kind of feedback you wish you could give consistently, I break it all down in this video:

🎥 Watch the Video

And if you did read that email and thought, “Okay, this makes sense... but what do I say in the moment?”—you’re not alone.

Here’s a quick structure you can try:

  1. Say what you noticed – “I saw you do X…”
  2. Say why it matters – “That’s important because…”
  3. Offer a next step or encouragement – “Here’s what could make it even better…” or “Keep that up!”

That’s it. Feedback that actually lands.

🧠 Challenge for this week:


Commit to giving at least one piece of feedback (positive or constructive) within 24 hours of noticing something. You’ll be amazed at the trust and momentum that builds.

And if you're still overthinking it or feeling stuck in “Ugh, how do I say this without it being awkward?” land…

I’m offering a free 15-minute strategy call to help you turn feedback into your leadership superpower.


📅 Schedule Here 📅

Let’s make sure your feedback feels like the gift it truly is—on both sides.

Talk soon,
Elisabeth Robinson
Your Mastering Hard Conversations Coach 👩‍🏫
https://masteringhardconversations.com

P.S. Know someone who dreads feedback talks? Forward this to them. Sharing is caring—and coaching. 😉

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